Estwald
1 min readApr 2, 2023

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The qualities cited in the original article are personal preferences; they are not universal.

My wife and I have been together harmoniously for almost thirty years. I have none of the qualities cited in the original article.

I have little if any, emotional intelligence. I am a poor communicator. I do very minimal housework; I take no initiative. I have never gone to therapy.

We care for our 16-month-old great-grandson three days a week. My wife does all the feeding, bathing, and diaper changing.

We are 100% monogamous. Neither one of us would want it any other way.

If you are interested, here are a couple of comments I wrote about my wife and me:

https://estwald.medium.com/you-are-expressing-your-personal-preference-not-good-general-dating-advice-b41c54bcb369

https://estwald.medium.com/my-wife-cheated-on-me-then-left-to-be-with-her-lover-ccc1d6044888

I am not lonely. I am but one example of the many men who do not conform to your expectations yet have ample female company.

We are not suffering from a lack of social interaction.

Could you be hoping to convince men to conform to your expectations to provide yourself with a larger dating pool?

https://estwald.medium.com/i-have-no-quarrel-with-women-who-prefer-particular-characteristics-in-the-men-with-whom-they-might-8d7b4c2a917c

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Estwald
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