The qualities cited in the original article are personal preferences; they are not universal.
My wife and I have been together harmoniously for almost thirty years. I have none of the qualities cited in the original article.
I have little if any, emotional intelligence. I am a poor communicator. I do very minimal housework; I take no initiative. I have never gone to therapy.
We care for our 16-month-old great-grandson three days a week. My wife does all the feeding, bathing, and diaper changing.
We are 100% monogamous. Neither one of us would want it any other way.
If you are interested, here are a couple of comments I wrote about my wife and me:
https://estwald.medium.com/my-wife-cheated-on-me-then-left-to-be-with-her-lover-ccc1d6044888
I am not lonely. I am but one example of the many men who do not conform to your expectations yet have ample female company.
We are not suffering from a lack of social interaction.
Could you be hoping to convince men to conform to your expectations to provide yourself with a larger dating pool?