I have absolutely no interest in winning feminists' approval. Their sticks are substanceless and can cause me no pain or harm.
I live by standards that I set for myself. I do not consult feminists to guide me in establishing the principles by which I live. People are welcome to appreciate me as I am or disparage me; their choice.
The goals I hope to achieve do not include developing "emotional intelligence" or dismantling "the patriarchy." My emotional IQ is zero and likely to stay that way - the same as my intellectual IQ - explained here:
I recognize no obligation to conform my conduct, my thoughts, or the content of my conversations to feminists, expectations.