You're playing semantics games. I could have made a better choice of words.
My wife is opposed to elective abortions for herself and all other women. Is that better?
Mainly I was answering your question:
"Why would any woman marry a guy voting for the party that has passed laws saying she has no right to make her own medical decisions..."
My wife would not refuse to marry such a man because she does not object to the laws you are referring to.
Also, if you mean abortion why don't you use the word "abortion" rather than referring to it as "medical decisions?" Has anyone passed any laws prohibiting women from making medical decisions in general? Since the laws apply strictly to abortions, why do you choose such inexplicit terminology? What other medical procedures besides abortions have been prohibited by law?