You are entitled to your expectations, but no one is obligated to conform to them. I am sure you have what you consider a good reason for your anger, but it is others' prerogative to respond as they see fit. No one is obligated to "understand."

I am not arguing or policing anything. I am asking you if you are getting the results for which you are hoping.

If you are satisfied with the results your approach is producing, you are free to continue with it - or not. It is entirely up to you. I have no interest in telling you what to do.

You are entitled to express your expectations in any manner you choose. Others are free to respond in any way they choose. Others' responses are beyond your control.

Congratulations on inspiring 135 people to respond satisfactorily to the expectations you have expressed.