“Once we get that little detail sorted…”

There is no unified “we.” There are various factions of “we,” and individuals who disagree with one another as to how that detail should be sorted. No matter how many details are sorted, men will still experience sexual access to women as a scarce resource. That experience will continue to influence their behavioral choices.

Women are not scarce resources, there are plenty of them. Sexual access is the scarce resource. People, in general, are not resources, but any essential services they have to offer are resources.

I am not one of those people who enjoy sex with non-humans; therefore, when I display sexual interest in a woman I am treating her as a human being.