Thanks for the warning.

“Well personally I will use my looks to get ahead or to my advantage. Why not?”

Indeed, why not? If you’ve got it, use it.

If I may offer some advice:

Keep in mind that the power behind your looks will fade over the years and may eventually vanish. In the meantime, more power to you.

I never did much dating. I was more inclined to “hang out,” and I was more comfortable with women who liked to hang out. By my junior year in college, I was “hanging out” exclusively with my soon to be wife. We were married several months after I graduated. After twenty years she decided she was bored and needed to “find herself.” Ultimately, she found herself in the arms of another man and flew the coop. Less than a year later I was hanging out with my current wife. We have been together in one capacity or another, and faithful to each other, for twenty-six years now. So you can see that I, too, have limited dating experience.

Relations between men and women, in general, are indeed complicated and are likely to remain so for the foreseeable future. Sorting out those complications helps us to achieve wisdom and maturity.