Medium tends to favor the first group, so one would expect to find more of them. I don't know if that ratio holds in outside life. I don't know about Quora; I rarely look at it. Same with Substack (although my participation there is increasing). I don't participate elsewhere.
If I were part of the second group, I might not want to have much to do with the first group. I would probably be unaware of them.
The numbers don't matter. The idea is that women are not double messaging us. Some women want attention from men and others do not. Women don't act as a collective. They are not Borg.
