“But it is not real.”
I have described men’s experience as clearly as I know how. You are determined to deny that experience. You seem to believe that the driving force behind men’s behavior is an inherent determination to make women’s lives miserable.
I have demonstrated that men’s behavior is entirely consistent with the behavior of the members of any population facing a scarcity of any essential resource. It is your prerogative to ignore that consistency if you so choose.
When it comes to men’s experience of sexual access to women as a scarce resource, you and I think differently.