I had a former wife who flew the coup at the end of March to be with her cheating partner. They ended up splitting when he cheated on her. Cheaters cheat; that is their way.

By October the same year, my wife and I met and started dating; we never stopped.

In the months between, there were two. One decided not to pursue a relationship with me a couple of days after we had sex. That was that.

The other was a woman I met at a conference a couple weeks before I met my wife. We never discussed a relationship. At the time it was a one-nighter. She lived a two hour drive from me. A month after, I received a letter from her saying that she would like us to get together some time. Since my wife and I had already become a defacto couple, I wrote back and explained the situation. That was our last communication.

I met my first wife during my junior year in college. Before that I don't remember how many women I was with - half a dozen, at most. I remember my first experience. It was the summer after my junior year in high school.

When my first wife left to be with her cheating partner, it was her second episode of cheating. The first was 10 years prior - with the same man. I am writing a multi-part story about the entire 10 year ordeal. I will publish it after I finish all the parts. The first 3 parts, describing the first episode are finished. They are not published, but if you'd like to take a look here is a preview link:

https://medium.com/@estwald/another-somebody-done-somebody-wrong-song-b3ba2b7cd2f3

Does that answer your question?