Feminism, as an ideology and a movement, is fundamentally harmful. Neither the ideology nor the movement was necessary to the achievement of social progress. The instances of social evolution which were backed by Feminists would have occurred with or without Feminist advocacy. The harm done by Feminist activism far outweighs any minor contribution the movement may have made to natural social evolution.
I have no quarrel with women seeking to uplift themselves either individually or collectively. But where they do so at my expense, I will oppose them.
When Feminists express their expectations of men, I usually ignore them. I do sometimes speak up to remind other men that they are not obliged to conform their conduct, their thoughts, or the content of their conversations to Feminists' expectations, particularly when I can do so using a satirical style.