What’s the deal with all these different color pills?
Ironically, “incels” seem to overlook the fact that sex is available for purchase. No one who has money in his pocket is stuck being involuntarily celibate and it doesn’t take a fortune to purchase “Becky” for an hour.
Years ago one of my students asked me, “How can I find a woman who will have sex with me without my needing to get involved in a relationship?”
I began by advising him to get a phone book from any large city and look up “escort services” — -He interrupted me to say, “You mean I should PAY for it?!”
I explained that that is the most expedient means to get what he was looking for. He found my advice to be unsatisfactory. I believe that what he was really looking for, whether he realized it or not, was a woman who would have a passionate desire for him. That is something that cannot be purchased for any amount of money; nor can it be obtained through coercion or persuasion.
If the student had given careful thought to my “advice” he might have reached that conclusion for himself.
I believe that that is what an “incel” is looking for, someone to passionately desire him. It is something that is difficult for anyone to find. It is something that many of us struggle to obtain.